Traditional system of the society, the result of which one has to suffer all his life.

If a couple has more than one child, they must bear in mind that they are responsible for all children, regardless of their circumstances.  The elder child cannot be made responsible for his younger siblings, because that is not his responsibility.

 In our society, it is an unwritten rule to impose the responsibility of the younger sibling on the older child.  He has to make all the sacrifices.  Everyone forgets that he himself is a child.  But he did not bring the siblings who were born into this world.  So why should he make all the sacrifices?

 What is the maximum age difference for older children?  5/6/7!  In many cases it is one and a half or two years or even less.  So how do you expect this little child to understand everything?  Will he give up all his claims?  Why everyone tells him that - you are older, you give it to younger brother/sister.  When there is a problem between the siblings, the mother comes and scolds and beats the elder.  Father comes and blames the elder, why he does not understand!  But both parents even as adults do not understand what the little child wants!

 They grow up slowly.  The elder of the house has to do the housework, but the younger one is not allowed to move the broom, because he is small.  Any choice of food or clothing is always preferred by the younger, followed by the older if there is anything left.  He who is small never grows up.  20/25/30 years old but still young.

The responsibility of the family belongs to the eldest son. Along with the eldest son, the responsibility falls on the shoulders of the eldest wife. They are obliged to take responsibility for the family. There is no problem if the little ones walk around with wind on them. In this social system "big boy" type plays are preferred by people. The eldest son has to learn to give up, to learn to give up his hobbies and desires. Otherwise, he is a child of Kulanga, so does not take on the responsibility of siblings. Whose fault is it that the sibling who has not yet become subliminal, or who is subliminal but still looks at the elder brother for trivial matters?

 It is not necessary to give birth to children year after year, one has to do one's duty towards them. How normal is the custom of forcing the other children to drag the yoke on the neck of one child? How humane?

 Do not impose liability. Then it became a noose. Children will fulfill their responsibilities towards their parents out of love, not out of compulsion. When will we understand this simple truth?